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Post by Tamrin on Apr 1, 2014 9:49:32 GMT 10
People behave and act in accordance with the expectations others have of them
Life is about choices, and you have the ability to choose. You always have had this ability. I suggest that not only do you have the ability, you have the responsibility to make choices for yourself. It is your life, and you are in the driver's seat, if you choose to be
You're creative, intuitive, and powerful inside — you're a creative genius. But you've got to allow yourself to get off the old track
We move towards what we repeatedly focus on, whether it's good for us or not
You must create a vivid mental picture of the end results you want. Once you imprint that vision in your mind, you will become very creative to find information that you can use to help achieve it
Don't be too concerned with how you're going to be what you want to be in the future; you'll learn how to create and invent the process along the way
When your uppermost values are consistent with permanent principles, natural laws, perhaps even eternal values, then all around you can change — you can even lose most of what you have — and you'll remain strong and centered. Now, the losses might bother you for a time, but they won't beat youLou TiceUS secular magus ( Pacific Institute) (Cognitive Psychology & Social Learning) (Died this day 2012) I want you to get to the point in maturity where you do this unselfishly, where you give with no ulterior motive at all, where you are primarily interested in helping people around you because that's the greatest sense of reward that you can find. You make it happen simply because it's the right thing to do, not to impress anyone, not because you want something from it. Your intent is unselfish. You're motivated by love and justice
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 1, 2014 9:50:04 GMT 10
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 2, 2014 11:41:37 GMT 10
Wednesday’s Quotes:I will begin with this confession: whatever I have done in the course of my life, whether it be good or evil, has been done freely; I am a free agent
Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion
The man who has sufficient power over himself to wait until his nature has recovered its even balance is the truly wise man, but such beings are seldom met with
I am bound to add that the excess in too little has ever proved in me more dangerous than the excess in too much; the last may cause indigestion, but the first causes death
I have felt in my very blood, ever since I was born, a most unconquerable hatred towards the whole tribe of fools, and it arises from the fact that I feel myself a blockhead whenever I am in their company
We avenge intellect when we dupe a fool, and it is a victory not to be despised for a fool is covered with steel and it is often very hard to find his vulnerable part
In fact, to gull a fool seems to me an exploit worthy of a witty manBro. Giacomo Casanova Venetian soldier, spy, diplomat, writer, adventurer (Born this day 1725) Real love is the love that sometimes arises after sensual pleasure: if it does, it is immortal; the other kind inevitably goes stale, for it lies in mere fantasy
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 2, 2014 11:43:20 GMT 10
“Just living is not enough," said the butterfly, "one must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower”
Travelling expands the mind rarely
He found whole figures which represented a written word; but he never could manage to represent just the word he wanted — that word was 'eternity', and the Snow Queen had said, "If you can discover that figure, you shall be your own master, and I will make you a present of the whole world and a pair of new skates." But he could not find it out
To be of use to the world is the only way to be happy
No one would allow that he could not see these much-admired clothes; because, in doing so, he would have declared himself either a simpleton or unfit of his office
In the days of Moses and the prophets such a man would have been counted among the wise men of the land; in the Middle Ages he would have been burned at the stake
Life is like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed upHans Christian AndersenDanish author of 150 fairy tales (Born this day 1805) Life itself is the most wonderful fairy tale
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 2, 2014 11:43:54 GMT 10
The truth is on the march and nothing will stop it
If you shut up truth, and bury it underground, it will but grow
The artist is nothing without the gift, but the gift is nothing without work
There are two men inside the artist, the poet and the craftsman. One is born a poet. One becomes a craftsman
If I cannot overwhelm with my quality, I will overwhelm with my quantity
Perfection is such a nuisance that I often regret having cured myself of using tobacco
If you ask me what I came into this life to do, I will tell you: I came to live out loudÉmile ZolaFrench novelist ( Nana, J'Accuse) (Born this day 1840) J'accuse(“I accuse”)
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 2, 2014 11:44:31 GMT 10
Creativity is that marvellous capacity to grasp mutually distinct realities and draw a spark from their juxtaposition
The role of the painter . . . is to project that which sees itself in him
Painting is not for me either decorative amusement, or the plastic invention of felt reality; it must be every time: invention, discovery, revelation
I succeeded in simply attending at the birth of all my works
All good ideas arrive by chance
The task of the right eye is to peer into the telescope, while the left eye peers into the microscope
The splendour of the stars is not reserved for those who have ticketsMax ErnstGerman painter, sculptor, graphic artist and poet (Born this day 1891) The virtue of pride, which was once the beauty of mankind, has given place to that fount of ugliness, Christian humility
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 2, 2014 11:45:07 GMT 10
A neurosis is a secret that you don't know you're keeping
When a society has doubts about its future, it tends to produce spokes- men whose main appeal is to the emotions, who argue from intuitions, and whose claim to be truth-bearers rests solely on intense personal feeling
How far should one accept the rules of the society in which one lives? To put it another way: at what point does conformity become corruption? Only by answering such questions does the conscience truly define itself
We shall be judged by what we do, not by how we felt while we were doing it
I attacked those Western playwrights who use their influence and affluence to preach to the world the nihilistic doctrine that life is pointless and irrationally destructive, and that there is nothing we can do about it. Until everyone is fed, clothed, housed and taught, until human beings have equal leisure to contemplate the overwhelming fact of mortality, we should not (I argued) indulge in the luxury of "privileged despair"
The man who reacts to the universe with a cry of impotent anguish is acceptable as an artist only if he can persuade us that he has sanely considered the other possible reactions and found them inadequate
I hope I never need to believe in God. It would be an awful confession of failureKenneth TynanBritish author and theatre critic (Born this day 1927) A good drama critic is one who perceives what is happening in the theatre of his time. A great drama critic also perceives what is not happening
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 2, 2014 11:45:43 GMT 10
Modern liberalism suffers unresolved contradictions. It exalts individualism and freedom and, on its radical wing, condemns social orders as oppressive. On the other hand, it expects governments to provide materially for all, a feat manageable only by an expansion of authority and a swollen bureaucracy In other words, liberalism defines government as tyrant father but demands it behave as nurturant mother. Feminism has inherited these contradictions
The mystique of the femme fatale cannot be perfectly translated into male terms
Everything is so damn Mary Poppins and sanitized
The moral ambivalence of the great mother goddesses has been conven- iently forgotten by those American feminists who have resurrected them
The book of Genesis is a male declaration of independence from the ancient mother-cults. Its challenge to nature, so sexist to modern ears, marks one of the crucial moments in western history
Don’t look for sexual enlightenment from academe, which spews out mountains of books but never looks at life directly
Masculine identity is embattled and fragileCamille PagliaAmerican author, scholar and critic ( Sexual Personæ(Born this day 1947) The only antidote to the magic of images is the magic of words
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 2, 2014 11:46:33 GMT 10
Each time, storytellers clothed the naked body of the myth in their own traditions, so that listeners could relate more easily to its deeper meaning
As for the historical inspirations I drew on in writing The Snow Queen, I suppose I would call them more cross-cultural inspirations, though they frequently involve past societies as well as present day ones
And so The Snow Queen also became a story about the need to seek equilibrium, in our own lives, with the natural world, even within the universe at large
But our society does not grant nontraditional forms of intelligence equal recog- nition, no matter how much it would help us get along or truly enrich our lives
In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is stoned to death
Indifference is the strongest force in the universe. It makes everything it touches meaningless. Love and hate don't stand a chance against it
The contradictions are what make human behaviour so maddening and yet so fascinating, all at the same time Joan D. VingeAmerican science fiction author ( The Snow Queen) (Born this day 1948) For every path you choose, there is another you must abandon, usually forever
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Post by Tamrin on Apr 2, 2014 11:48:29 GMT 10
Whatever you think, think the opposite
If you always make the right decision, the safe decision, the one most people make, you will be the same as everyone else
Be unfashionable. Take risks
Risks are a measure of people. People who won't take them are trying to preserve what they have. People who do take them often end up having more
Too many people spend too much time trying to perfect something before they actually do it
Be your own worst critic. When things go wrong it's tempting to shift the blame. Don't. Accept responsibility. People will appreciate it, and you will find out what you're capable of
Great people have great egos; maybe that's what makes them greatPaul ArdenAmerican author and inspirational speaker (Died this day 2008) Do it, then fix it as you go
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